In this era of science and technology, many of us have lost touch with the sacred traditions and ceremonies that, in times past, kept us connected to community and the divine. As we step into the stream of ever more choice, ever more busy, and the infinite stream of information and more stuff, I’m afraid we’re sacrificing our intuitive wisdom and inner knowing for instant gratification and easy pleasure.

Over the course of my adult life, I’ve been a student of culture. The thing that I find most comforting within each are their sacred traditions and ritual practices. They can range from the simple to the complex, yet all are a way to step out of the mundane and into the extraordinary. 

It must have been the many years I spent immersed in Japanese culture that opened my heart to ritual and ceremony first. From the mundane removal of shoes before entering the home, or the simple “Itadakimasu” said before every meal— to the complex donning of a kimono worn during esoteric tea ceremony. These ancient practices are a way to consciously cross an invisible threshold into something more sacred, that offers reciprocity between humanity, spirit and nature. 

From these early experiences, I’ve continued to open my heart to the wonders of ritual and ceremony found in diverse cultures around the world. While some might criticize this as a form of appropriation, instead I offer that this is the language of prayer, a connection to spirit, and a deeper relationship with divine guidance. 

The more I observe clture, and study with skilled Shamans and wise teachers across the globe, the more I’m able to move through the veils of trauma that my human self has experienced. Ceremony and ritual have taught me about pure intention and have allowed me to see what doesn’t serve me any longer.

These days I live in deep connection with the plants, the animals, and the spirit guides that are my allies. Everyday they help and support me in reconnecting my lost parts of self to my natural state of wholeness. They guide me to dream my life into reality, and as a result, now more than ever I’m experiencing the life I’ve dreamed of living. 

Shamanic wisdom, ritual and ceremony are all gaining momentum right now, and for good reason. This is a very important time where the collective “we” is being called to come together for peace, equality, and a new understanding of unity on our planet. 

From ancient to modern times, ritual and ceremony are diverse and unique within each culture. What remains consistent is the intention to weave the sacred into the ordinary to bring forth wholeness. Tjhey offers the opportunity to strengthen the connection to inner spirit and as a result, to the collective spirit, as one.

What I know is that we are stronger, more beautiful and more powerful than we can ever imagine. Ceremony and ritual provide the conscious action to help keep us on our path. — Aho

Infinite Love,

Here’s a real life situation, that at some time or another, we all face — grieving a loss of something we love. It may be a person, a situation, an end of a relationship, loss of a job, or in my case, loss of a beloved pet. There’s nothing quite as painful as the heartbreak of loss. 

If you’ve been following me for a while now, you may have heard the story of Rambo Ram Dass, my pit bull spiritual warrior. I call him my spiritual warrior because he taught me some of the most important lessons during my healing journey. He helped me regain my spiritual strength, and lead me to reconnect with my healing practices. 

He and I had an energetic connection. We talked through spirit rather than words. When he would go off exploring on the farm, he rarely would come when called. Instead, when I called him through my heart energy, silently, he’d come trotting up the path towards me. 

Over the past 3 months he had been ill, swollen lymph nodes, infection in the lungs, enlarged heart. And on Saturday, while we were visiting the vet for another treatment, he died in my arms. He was 5 years old. 

Now, I’m not going to lie, the last couple of months have really sucked. But when the weight of grief begins to settle in, I try to catch it, recognize it, thank it for allowing me to feel, and then I do my best to turn that sorrow into gratitude. And here’s the thing, research is showing that transforming sorrow into gratitude, while challenging, can have strong emotional and mental benefits. 

According to a decade’s worth of research on gratitude by Robert Emmons of Berkeley University, it’s clear that no one “feels” grateful when faced with the loss of something dear to them. What is clear, is the difference between “feeling” grateful and “being” grateful. In my case, I don’t “feel” grateful that my sweet dog has died, but I AM grateful for all that he taught me, all the joy that he brought to my life. 

So, while I can’t will myself to feel less sadness about this loss, I can honor these feelings with making the choice to be grateful for our time together. 

Another aspect of the research tells us that being grateful helps us cope with crisis. Cultivating an attitude of gratitude builds up our psychological immune system that supports us in hard times. The science shows that when people express gratitude they are more resistant to stress. 

So don’t push away the sorrow, after all, life has it’s disappointments, frustrations, losses, setbacks and sadness. Life includes suffering. When we view life through an attitude of gratitude, we are not denying our suffering. Instead, we realize the power we have within us to overcome and transform the suffering into finding closure and letting go of difficult memories. 

Emmons found evidence of these 3 conclusions:

1. Gratitude can be an overwhelming intense feeling.
2. Gratitude for the gifts that others easily overlook most can be the most powerful and frequent form of thankfulness.
3. Gratitude can be chosen in spite of one’s situation or circumstance. 

Healing from grief is a process, and I’m on the journey to healing my broken heart. I’m truly grateful to have loved this pup so deeply, and I’d do it again in a heartbeat. And gratitude, I’m finding, is the cure for this broken heart. 

How has gratitude helped you deal with crisis or loss? I’d love to know. Just hit the reply button and send me a reply message. I always appreciate hearing from you. 

Infinite ∞ Love,
Lyn

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